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    Ruffa on annulment: God is good

    Ruffa Gutierrez (NPPA Images)"God is good!"

    Ruffa Gutierrez briefly shared her feelings about the annulment of her marriage to Turkish businessman Yilmaz Bektas with viewers of her weekly showbiz-oriented show, “Paparazzi: Showbiz Exposed.”

    She also told viewers on Saturday, February 25, that it's an emotional time for her because the petition for the  annulment was long overdue. She also couldn't contain her emotions when she saw the video of her and Yilmaz before she was interviewed by her “Paparazzi” colleagues.

    Ruffa only has good words for Yilmaz. She said on "Paparazzi" that she has known him for more than 10 years and wishes him all the luck.

    "Sana from this day forward we can grow, maging magkaibigan na lang kami and at peace in our hearts for our kids," she expressed.

    Ruffa added that she already left her past behind.

    "I want to remember Yilmaz for all the good things and kung bakit ako na-in love sa kanya in the first place, kung bakit kami may dalawang anak. I have let go, even if I am emotional sometimes about it is just because may pinagsamahan kami at naging asawa ko siya."

    She had mixed reactions when she got the annulment papers.

    "With me I couldn't read the resolutions. I had to wait talaga until I was on the plane till nabasa ko talaga ang resolution. Parang flashback of the things na nangyari. You know i can say that it was a bitter sweet journey," she shared.

    Ruffa and Yilmaz have been apart for almost five years since they jointly announced their separation last May 8, 2007.  The statement cited cultural differences–not “abuse”–which Ruffa openly talked about, as one of the reasons for the separation.

    Ruffa has sole custody of the children, Lorin and Venice.

     

    15 comments

    • Debby Clarins  •  Hong Kong, Hong Kong-China  •  2 months ago
      WOW ANG GALING MANG HUSGA NG KAPWA NATIN IF U WERE ON THE SHOES OF RUFFA SIGURO GAGAWIN NYO RIN ANG TAMA FOR THE SAKE OF UR CHILDREN AND FAMILY DI BAH??? ANG DAPAT SUPORTAHAN NA LANG NATIN SIYA FOR THE SAKE OF HER SELF AND FAMILY TAMA LANG ANG GINAWA NYA.. HINDI SIYA MARTYR HUWAG NATIN SIYANG HUSGAHAN .REMEMBER WE ARE ALL SINNERS AND NO ONE IS PERFECT IN THIS WORLD. ISA LANG BIKTIMA DI BAH..AT NAG KAMALI RIN SIYA KATULAD MO. SO DONT JUDGE OR DID A BAD COMMENTS...WE ARE ALL SINNERS IN THIS WORLD.MY DEAR RUFFA IM ON UR SIDE U DID THE EXACT THING MAY GOD BLESS U..
    • Markus Antunio  •  2 months ago
      WAAA. SI KRIS AT RUFFA MGA NA-ANAL NA SILA. DI MAN LANG SILA NASAKTATAN SA PAGKA - ANAL SAKANILA..hikhik...MALULUWANG NA SIGURO ANG KANILA MGA ANO..hikhik.
    • tedab  •  2 months ago
      Good for you Ruffa... I have nothing against divorce or annulment.. if you don' get along with your partner no matter how much you tried and violence is present and being witnessed by your children why waste your time and emotions and also compromise your safety and sanity. Children will only be traumatized. Or worse they will become abuser later in life when they have their own family. I am a Catholic and still believe the sacrament of marriage but I am just realistic. Some couples are happily living together but there are some couples who are living in Hell also....
    • cecil juan  •  Riyadh, Saudi Arabia  •  2 months ago
      Parang wala akong nabasa na yung annulment ay sinabi ng Diyos sa Bible...Mayroon ba?..Mukhang di nya kaloob ng Diyos ang annulment sa pagsasama ng mag-asawa...Ang intindi ko ay gawa yan ng tao...Kaya we cannot say na "God is good" para sa annulment ng isang couple or couples na ikinasal sa ngalan ni Kristo..pero kung ikinasal ang mag-asawa sa ibang faith or sa pamamagitan lang ng batas ay ibang usapan yun...
      • Apple 2 months ago
        d nman kasi yan nag ba2sa ng BIBLE,ibang klasing libro ang binabasa nyan.hehehe
      • Benjie C 2 months ago
        @cecil: i agree with you 100%. hindi nya puwedeng sabihin na GOD is good dahil na-annul ang marriage nya. siguro meron siyang ibig sabihin. tama walang clause sa BIBLE na tumutugon sa annulment. sabagay sa Muslim marriage e allowed iyan at hindi sa Catholic. Muslim marriage ang kina ruffa t yilmaz.
      • LiLy 2 months ago
        31 “It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ 32 But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery. - Matthew 5:31-32
    • Pepe  •  Manila, National Capital Region  •  2 months ago
      "God is good." Of course, Ruffa. But you're not.
      • Aerial V 2 months ago
        Definitely. Tama ka jan. hehehe.
    • Bill O'Really  •  2 months ago
      Ruffa, you're clearly deluded if you think God wanted any part in allowing you to break your marriage vows regardless of what church or country you made them. - GROW UP!
    • nis  •  Doha, Qatar  •  2 months ago
      God is good! ibig sabihin nto ay nalagpasan mo ang problemang pampamelya. pero hindi sa paghiwalayan. wives submit to your husband, husband love your wife. if your husband doesnt love tell it to God. God said vengence is mine.
      • tedab 2 months ago
        I do agree to you that she has surpass the trials sa family nya.. pero kapag there's no respect from your husband like he will physically abuse you, tapos ng baba-bae pah...e pray muna lang kay God na makayanan muh but give yourself some respect.. live the dork our of your life!
      • Maria 2 months ago
        For me may hangganan ang pagtitiis... hindi ako pinanganak para magpakamartir kung binubugbog ako o winawalanghiya ng aking asawa. Tama lang na ipa-annul ang marriage para maibangon ang nawalang dangal o respeto sa sarili. Sabi nga nasa Diyos ang awa nasa tao ang gawa kung hindi ka gagawa ng paraan di ka makakawala sa pagdurasa. Para magwork ang relationship kailangan parating dalawa kayo. Kung mag-isa ka na lang at nangibang pugad na ang kapareho alangan namang ipilit mo pa ang sarili mo. Kung masaya ka sa marriage mo good for you, pero kung hindi bakit kailangan mong magsuffer habang buhay. Life is good and you can only live once. Pilipinas na lang ang walang divorce and yet hinahayaan lang natin na maging madumi ang lipunang ating ginagalawan... dahil sa hindi natin pagtanggap sa kasalukuyang nangyayari sa ating lipunan. Mas gusto pa natin ang kaliwaan ng kaliwaan at kabitan ng kabitan kesa maayos at nasa prosesong pagsasaayos ng mga isyong pampamilya. Nakikita na nating binubugbog na si babae sasabihin pa nating kaya mo yan... para sa mga bata... hihintayin pa natin na isama ang mga anak sa pambubugbog bago natin sabihing hiwalayan mo na yang asawa mong walang kwenta. Kaya Ruffa at sa lahat ng mga babaeng nakaranas ng pagbubugbog na nagpa annul... tama lang ang ginawa nyo... pero sa mga walang pera.... pagtiisan nyo lang dahil di nyo kakayanin ang gastos sa pagpapa-annul... karamihan sa ating mga Filipino... nabubuhay sa kahirapan... pero dagdag pa sa kahirapan.... kung nahihirapan ka din dahil kasal ka sa taong walang kwenta at di ka makawala kahit gustohin mo man.
      • nis 2 months ago
        sis, ang lahat may hanganan pro ang Diyos lamang ang may karapatan sa lahat. God will make a way to give you a brand new day.
    • Maria  •  2 months ago
      Many of us think that we know everything. We should think out of the box and be open minded. We are not in her shoes that is why we should not give any bad comments against the other person, as if we are not sinners. All of us are sinners. It is just so happened that her marriage was not successful and It can happen to any one. She will leave only once in her life and she deserves to be happy. It is a blessing from God that whatever obstacles she encountered from her past marriage are already finished and she can start anew. That is why God is good, He is there to end our own created sufferings, if we will only do something about it. There is no annulment of marriage in the bible because the bible proclaims good marriage and good life but if bad experiences or bad life came in (because the world is not perfect like us human beings), people should act accordingly to the situation and provide remedy/ies as possible by the help of laws we humans created and to be created. That is the essence why God give us intelligence and heart as well to act humanly for the benefit of all not only fortunate but to those unfortunate. We should be happy for others happiness and respect, love and forgive one another. Annulment and Divorce are solutions to those who suffers...they are remedies bound of rules and regulations, time, effort and money... for unsuccessful marriage... but for successful marriage, annulment or divorce will never be ever applicable.
    • Karen  •  San Francisco, United States  •  2 months ago
      ang kitid pa rin pala talaga ng utak ng mga Pinoy. if a woman is being abused in a marriage or whatever "God"-sanctioned partnership (and I have no idea if this was the case for Ms. Gutierrez), it is her right and her obligation to do what's her right for herself and her kids, if any. she should not have to worry about whether the "Bible" sanctions it, or whether ignorant observers would approve. one would imagine any reasonable "God" would not object to this, even if it means ending a marriage.
      • lazychimp4 2 months ago
        .. then again, there's a huge difference between what's right and what's practical, right? Somehow i get the 'feeling' in Gutierrez's case that's it's the latter especially after seeing how hard she's clinging on to her ill-conceived notion that she's still relevant in showbiz circles.
      • Mooo 2 months ago
        Karen nakakahilo and punctuation marks mo! MAgaral ka muna bago ka mangaral.
      • Jose Rizal 2 months ago
        Karen, kindly have your head checked with a shrink....you're breaking up girl!!!!
    • St. James I  •  2 months ago
      what's God got to do with it? she have decided on her own destiny in creating a broken family. Lets just hope she can really move on as her children will need a lot of tender loving care, both emotional and psychological.
    • Aerial V  •  Manila, National Capital Region  •  2 months ago
      PERA LANG NAMAN ANG HABOL MO KAY YLMAS EH. ALAM MONG NAPAKABABA ANG STATUS NG MGA BABAE SA KULTURA NG ARABO, TAPOS MAGREREKLAMO KA NG BATTERY AND PHYSICAL ABUSE.....DI KA NAMAN CGURO GANUN KA-IGNORANTE OR NAGTATANGA-TANGAHAN KA LNG DAHIL MAYAMAN SYA.. SSSSUUUSSS!
    • juice_jigolo  •  2 months ago
      a broken family. a broken marriage. GOd is GOOD?? by the way who is your GOD? if I may ask.
    • Jose Rizal  •  Manila, National Capital Region  •  2 months ago
      God is good ka dyan!!!! gagamitin mo pa ang Diyos sa katangahan mo Ruffa!!!!
    • Albert  •  Manila, National Capital Region  •  2 months ago
      God is good? Biyaya na pala ni god ang annulment ngayon?
    • Mooo  •  2 months ago
      tama lang na mabugbog yan. mukhang pera.

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